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Grace Barker's avatar

Thanks for sharing, Frey! I love how you emphasized that systems are a start and then you should personalize them to work best for you. I find this is true for a lot of things, especially your health.

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Frey's avatar

Thank you so much, Grace! I completely agree—whether it’s productivity, writing, or health, the best systems are the ones we tailor to fit our own lives. Frameworks are just guides, giving us a head start, but since everyone’s circumstances are different and each of us is unique, I truly believe systems should be personal. Really appreciate your thoughtful insight! 😊💛

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Anton's avatar

This struck a nerve—in the best way. The way you describe the pendulum swing between "too much time" and "not enough" feels painfully familiar. Loved how you grounded it with a system that doesn’t demand perfection, just presence. Writing tasks by hand? Game-changer. Thanks for this.

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Frey's avatar

Glad it resonated with you, Anton! I truly believe that systems aren’t one-size-fits-all and often shift depending on the season of life we’re in. Sometimes, when I’m on a roll, I move fast and might tweak my system a bit. Other times, I find myself in that painful pendulum swing—what a beautiful analogy you’ve described. In those moments, grounding myself becomes far more important than striving for perfection. Wishing you the best on your journey! ✨

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Monica Devanand's avatar

This is great, thank you for sharing. I have a similar, but need to tighten it. And I need to stick to one space where I write it down, one notebook :)

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Frey's avatar

That sounds like a great plan! Having one dedicated space makes such a difference. You got this, Monica! 😊✨

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Vicki James's avatar

So close to the system I designed for myself. So far from what I'm actually doing. Time to double down!

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Frey's avatar

I love that! Having a system is one thing, but sticking to it is the real challenge. You got this, Vicki! 💪✨

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A.A. Ford's avatar

A great guide. So agree about writing. There is something grounding about it that a digital checklist can’t replicate.

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Frey's avatar

Absolutely! Writing has a way of making things feel more real and intentional. Glad you liked the guide! 😊✍️

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Sophia's avatar

So many great tips :) Can't wait to try this system out!

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Frey's avatar

Thanks, Sophia! Hope it works well for you—let me know how it goes! 😊

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